The second issue of intentional pompadour…coming soon!

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Are you familiar with my zine, intentional pompadour?

If not, click here to check out my side gig as publisher of the newest and coolest Southern culture zine in the land.

If you live in the Southeastern United States and would like to see your art, words, photography, and/or music featured in this zine, contact me at betseyvenom@yahoo.com and we’ll get you in a future issue.

Go here for submission information, and always remember to stay intentional!

 

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Books…at the thrift store?

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Yes, and plenty of them!

Are you an avid reader who enjoys finding and reading obscure books? Books that were written years ago and quickly forgotten?

If so, then thrift stores are for you!

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Nearly every thrift store I’ve visited across the country has a book section. Some are large, others small, but all are crammed with tons of titles. There are paperback novels, huge hardcover textbooks and everything in between.

Next time you’re thinking about book shopping, why not locate and visit your local thrifts? You might be surprised at what you find.

I personally collect Signet Classics paperbacks. Nearly every time I’ve had the itch to read a classic novel, I have gone to the thrift store first and found a perfect copy of the title I wanted to read. Instead of shelling out $10 or more at a big box bookstore, I have spent anywhere from $0.25 to $2.00 for the book.

So, go visit your thrift stores. And while you’re at it, take a look around at all the other treasures waiting to be discovered. Who knows what you might find?

A new jacket? New dishes for your kitchen? A funky vintage lamp? A nearly-new pair of shoes?

You never know, so keep your eyes open and make a treasure hunt out of your visit.

Happy reading and happy hunting!

FLASH BANG BOOM – live at Amazon!

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FLASH BANG BOOM is live and up at Amazon! I am so excited to see this collection of poems up and out in the world.

The purpose of publishing this digital chapbook is to inspire others to write their own poems…to explore their inner worlds and create word pictures that speak to their souls.

My wish is that these poems of mine will touch the lives of those who read them and that the words I’ve written will encourage others to go after their dreams. Go here to get your copy now. Only $0.99 for Kindle.

FLASH BANG BOOM COVER KINDLE

 

A book, you say? Why yes…yes indeed!

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After hiding it from public view for the past 30 some-odd years, I’ve decided to open my heart and toss my poetry out into the cosmos.

My late grandmother was a poet and published songwriter. She encouraged me to write, and write often, when I was young.

I never stopped writing.

Coming soon from Amazon for Kindle, a collection of works written between the late 1980’s to present day. These are bits and pieces of my soul, my word-children, and I think it’s time to let them roam free.

Details to come in the next issue of intentional pompadour which is due to be released mid-December 2017.

Stay tuned for a release date of this latest idea! (Is it normal to be this nervous?)

FLASH BANG BOOM COVER KINDLE

A Plus Size Revelation…at the Thrift Store

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I haven’t talked about a certain personal topic on this blog, and for good reason. One, I’m not a dietician nor am I a nutritionist. Two, weight is a very personal thing and I choose not to speak about my past issues with food and obesity. I will share that in 2015, due to oncoming health issues, I dropped over 50 pounds and 5 clothing sizes. I’ve maintained that loss to this day, and – even though I’m smaller than I used to be – I’m still very much a plus size babe.

That said, I feel like sharing something that happened to me, something eye-opening and humbling.

And it happened at a thrift store.

On a trip to one of our newer and local thrifts, a thrift I’d yet to visit (even though it’s very close to my house), I was browsing racks of luscious, beautiful, barely-worn clothing. Nothing brings a smile to my face more than flipping through the hangers, looking for new-to-me clothing in my new size.

This particular day, I kept running across gorgeous pieces that made my heart leap. I pulled the first item off the rack and fumbled for the size label, not noticing the actual size of the garment.

The sweater was in my old size, a size 28/30.

I stopped in my tracks, put the garment up against the rack and looked at it. I pulled it across, holding onto the sides, and stared at it for a moment before placing it back on the rack.

It seemed that nearly everything I found that day was in my old size.

Where, oh where, were these clothes years ago when I was searching my size at the thrift stores? I’d almost given up on thrifting back then, having come away nearly each shopping trip with nothing to show for the effort.

When I started dropping the weight, I would pull clothes out of my closet – clothes that had grown too big – and donate them to my favorite thrift. I’d donated, hoping to give someone a happy surprise when they dropped in to shop.

I still wonder who may have found the killer pink and black leopard top I’d given away, the awesome purple and black tie-dye pants…the faux-fur collared coat.

What I found to be true as a bigger person – that the thrift stores just don’t seem to like plus size folks – seems to have changed dramatically in the past couple of years. Today, there is a much better selection of plus size clothing in the thrift stores. In my city, every single thrift store I frequent is filled with wonderful plus size treasures. I’ve seen quite a lot of great pieces of clothing in ranges from tiny up to a size 28/30.

You have to look, just like you have to look when you’re searching any size…but they’re there. Trust me on this.

If you’re plus size and are afraid of trying to thrift for clothes, give it a try. I’m sure there are many garments in your size waiting to be found in shops where you live. Just take your time and look at everything. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Make it a point to give it a go. Your closet and your wallet will thank you!

Photo credit: mindful style

I Admit It…I Didn’t Practice What I Preach About Thrifting.

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Last weekend I was at Goodwill where I found a gorgeous cobalt blue tunic, originally sold at Neiman Marcus. It was only $4.69 plus tax. Score!

There was an identical tunic in the same size on the rack beside the blue one. This one was a chartreuse green. I grabbed it and carried both shirts around the store before settling on the blue one.

I put the green one back on the rack.

Ever since last Saturday, I’ve been kicking myself. Why didn’t I just buy it?

So, last night I went back to Goodwill. And, of course, it was gone.

I didn’t practice what I preach.

Disheartened, I decided to paw through the shirts for the heck of it. I mean, I was there. Why not?

Suddenly, my eye spotted this amazingly supple, rich red top by Ann Taylor.

It had ruching on one size, pleats on the opposite shoulder, and the material felt like heaven.

Best of all, it was my size.

I grabbed it, measured it to make sure, bought it, took it home.

It wasn’t the chartreuse tunic, but it made my night.

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If you are at a thrift store and see something that you think you want, hold onto that puppy until you get to the register. If you’re standing in line and decide that you don’t want it, then leave it with the cashier. Don’t put it down, especially if you are still quibbling inside over whether or not to get it.

I’ve learned my lesson the hard way. Thankfully, my return trip didn’t disappoint.

The Skinny White Tie

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Dean has been looking for a vintage 80’s skinny white tie. Every time we go into a thrift store, he runs to the tie rack hoping to find this elusive thing. He has scoured places like Poshmark and eBay yet struck out each time he looked.

Today, by a stroke of luck, he found one.

We had just dropped off a carload of miscellaneous items at our local Goodwill and then decided to go in and see what we could find. I went to shoes and purses, as usual, and he went to the tie rack.

I was sidetracked by women’s shirts and was browsing the many racks of tops and blouses when he approached me with a shocked look on his face…a skinny white tie in his hand.

The tie was perfect. No marks, no dirt. Just as white as snow and perfect as could be. It looked like it had never been worn.

There is nothing nicer than seeing someone you love with a heart full of happiness at finding something so truly desired.

What is the takeaway message in this short post? Never give up if you are searching for a particular item. If an Internet search doesn’t produce it, look in your local thrift stores…and shop often. 

Like the moment I found that Betsey Johnson watch, you never know what you’re going to stumble upon.

And when you do happen to find the item of your dreams, thank the thrift gods and donate something back to the thrift store for someone else to find and enjoy. 

Let’s keep the cycle going, giving and receiving, for it benefits us all!